The younger brother of Crows defender Nick Murray, Toby grew up in Henty in southern New South Wales and came to Adelaide the long way: Murray Bushrangers under-18s, Collingwood's VFL side in 2022, then Wangaratta Rovers in the Ovens and Murray League. Adelaide took the 200cm forward-ruck at pick 7 in the 2024 mid-season rookie draft. He has played 13 games and kicked 9 goals.